Sooo.. this time, I'll listen to what he has to say and let him know what that means if he is serious. I think he'll probably get stuck on my first request - move out of ow's house!
So is he living with OW and asking to reconcile with you? So if you sy no he stays with her? Wow, she must feel special! Yes, you need to insist that before you even consider it, he needs to be completely free of her.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn