Kat, feel free, and Goldey, a superboot sounds just like what's needed. NC, I have my brother who would LOVE to do that, but he's in Seattle area, so too far, so X is lucky. And my brother really is not one to fight physically, so he has been helping me with my legal fight against H. And then he plans to sue him civilly to get paid back for legal costs, which if X declares bankruptcy and marries OW as expected, then I wonder if he might have to pay, since he would be doing very well $$. One can only hope.
I forwarded an email to X this week. S16 has been attending confirmation class which all my family for umpteen generations has always done at teen age. He has been attending the class on my Sundays with him. They are having a function with their mentors (an elder of the church) next Sunday though, so asked X to swap weekends so I could take him. He emails back; he had NO IDEA that S16 was taking confirmation class and that he would take him and check it out (like it's some weird thing or something?). I emailed back, I testified that S16 was taking confirmation class on my Sundays at the December hearing (and I've got a bailiff, 2 L's, and a judge as witnesses!) And feel free to attend and ask ?s of S16's wonderful teacher (she really is). He's such a goob....
Talked to S16 about the school issues. Sounds like X way over-dramatized the #s and his role in solving them, I guess to attempt to look like superdad while I am bad mom. Should have thought of that....