I think I still love my W but I don't like her right now. She is not someone that I would to be with right now. I feel like becoming the WAS now. When I allow myself to really think about what I want, I still want to save my M...but not right now, maybe try again 6 months down the road. I'm burned out with this sitch. My personal life is good now. I'm GAL. My new job is good. I keep busy during the week and do things on the weekend, living life. It's nice.
It sounds like you're on the right path. I know of at least one case here where becoming the WAS did some good in the relationship. I think when you can get into that mindset, you're in a much better place.
