Young: I haven't read this whole thread carefully, but I just wanted you to know I'm another in similar shoes, and I completely understand what you're going through. Click on my username and click "Show Posts", and you'll see I have a long history here. W and I have had R problems longtime now. We're just beginning another round of counseling, and while I'm hopeful, I'm really beginning to believe there may not be much hope for the kind of relationship I want. I'm 54 and she's 56, we've been married 30+ years with 3 lovely kids, and we've probably tried most of the things you could think to try. So far no luck. It seems to me that she likes the status quo, and basically doesn't want things to change. That's very bad news for me. I hope I'm wrong...
