Just my own observation of yesterday. It seems as thought after a good day of validating my WAS did soften. In her body language and actions I could actually feel some sort of remorse. Obviously, not much but definitely some. I feel that it was a good day to build on. I also think that my truth darts actually stuck a little bit after I had given her a good listening session.
me 31 her 31 ilybinilwy 10-2-09 i moved out 12-13-09 boy 7 girl 3 boy 16 months