My Story

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Thanks Awoken
I'm sitting here waiting for the fitness center to open up and to go get my haircut (Gotta look good to feel good

Much better mood this morning after a good nights sleep. I started reading through your thread and now I need a bit of advice, hoping you and some of the vets will see this (Puppy help!!)

Finances
For the entire length of our marriage I have been the breadwinner and she has stayed home to raise the kids. Which is/was fine by me as we also home schooled. Along with this she also took care of the family budget. (Which looking back is probably part of the problem as she always had to deal with the hard times with the good where I should have been working with her)
So in a nutshell she has control of the money and her plan is to use our tax return to do through with the D.
Should I take all control of our cash now and tell her to find a way to pay for her own damn lawyer? (deep breath, calm thoughts, no anger ) Or do I let things continue on and let her have use of the money as she sees fit.
Mind you I don't hate her but I know now I am not going to through everything away so she can chase some dream or another R if that be the case.
Thank You