since you are so wise , is it normal for me to just want this to stop? last night i felt like just screaming...which i did , outside when i took the doggies out!they looked at me like i was nuts! felt good though! lol.
i think i have figured out what he is meaning...any thoughts are appreciated...here goes...
he needs space to fix himself...he has lost his true person over the years with everyday life and responsibilities
he cant deal with this...woke up to find himself overwhelmed with wife children and again more responsibilities
wants to be left alone or he says divorce...his way of telling me to stop, back off
has no time, has so much to take care of...he is off of work out of the house...running in circles accomplishing nothing
his main concern is his children...what? really? with what he does sometimes...i guess he either cant see past himself or he would see the damage...
me 39 h 38 kids 9 and 6 h left 8/9/09 loving and devoted wife and mother still going...10 months later...