... when they say they think they want to come back?
My question is why? Why now after H's long-time affair, his moving in with OW, and horrible divorce? He has been throwing around hints for a while that the grass isn't so much greener on the other side. It just seems bizarro that after torching our marriage he could possibly want to come back. I'm just plain and simple torn...
People screw up and make mistakes...bad ones...time and time again. Doesn't mean they can't change! Sometimes those mistakes don't have anything to do with the hurt spouse either, even though they were on the receiving end of some pretty bad treatment. He's still living in the OW house? Damn! I'd be cautious and take what he says with a grain of salt!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
