Oh......and the ML, I might not should tell you this, but I don't think it's "you" she's ML to. That's the reason for her not being affectionate other times. I would think that she's fantasizing about being with them, but if she's going with the webcam, then you can count on the fact they've seen every part of your W that you have. And now she placing racy pictures on the Internet and Lord only knows where they may end up some day. She is into deep stuff here and she needs extreme consequences. She needs accountability to you. Her H is more important than these men and that is what she's lost sight of b/c these me have brough a entire new realm of "sizzle" into her life. But, she's become a web whore. I'll never forget the first time (and only time) that work was said to me. It was a slap in thd face that I needed.
You may need to control sending the payements off yourself if you have been giving her access to the checking account to pay all the billds. And, you will have to suffer with Internet for a while also, but it worth it to save your M. Anywayime a M woman goes to be with a cell phohe under her pillow......she is bring the OM into the bed right there with you. He's TM her & she is him. Stop that at once and cutt of all cell phone bills. I'd even tak her check books and chard cards form her until she proves that you can depend upon her, or shelj not hesitate to bu new ones.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
