DCHM, so you are divorcing for sure? And you are done with W? good job detaching!
Yes, I'm just trying to stop the trial date from shifting. Detaching really makes it a lot easier to get yourself right.
There isn't much you can do while an A is ongoing anyone after the initial expose/confront (should you choose to do so) so detachment should be the primary thing you focus on after.
Originally Posted By: Day by Day
DCBHM, thanks for sharing your experience. I'm pretty much getting to this same point. Glad to hear how it's working out for *you*. I'll probably take you up on your offer to answer questions on legal stuff as I'm just starting D process.
Ask away. And yes - this works for me as stated. Some people are able to last longer due to situations, but each situation is different.
Listen to the advice of Puppy, Theoden, and others who are here. They have varying perspectives and advice - but it helps you to form something solid for yourself.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
