One thing that I have really gotten out of the last 15months of my own life - sometimes you have to let them know that you're there if they need you, then step aside and let them fall on their face. Until they feel consequences nothing will change. The more you try to help, or tell them what to do the more they will struggle to break free. The more they will be able to see your actions as the reason for their unhappiness too.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
