I don't think OW is smart enough to be scared of me. Jeez, actually, I think I am tough--but wow--she totally HUNG OUT casually in FRONT of me! and X! Ack! Do not think this!! I am way stronger than she is!!!!
Breath. Next steps:
*Saw a realtor today. *Emailed my financial guy to find out how much of stocks/bonds/IRA's I can really turn into cash. *Met with a potential roomie. (weird!! she's a WAW! beautiful blonde, no less. I will get a lot more attention if I bring her to the local bar with me!) But she is also a nurse, and as I am considering that as a career change--seems like karma to me...)
step by step....
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process