I second what Luvless says. So sorry that you find yourself in this situation. What a hurtful place to be. You will find very understanding people here who have gone through much of the same things that you are dealing with.
More information on your relationship and situation would be helpful. Not pursuing is key for a couple of reasons. It seems to push the WAS further away for one. The other is just about maintaining self worth. Afterall, do you want to chase some who has treated you so poorly? Again, so sorry you're here. You will make it through this. There are a lot of us here to help.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
