Hi all, I'm new here. I have read many posts and need advice on how to cope witht he anger and sadness at my impending divorce. My H left me six months ago when I got pregnant which devastated me. I struggled to cope with sadness, depression and panic for four months. We were apart for two months and then lived together at his suggestion for two months but the strain was too much for me as he acted like a stranger and we lived as roommates. I then left as I was suffereing too much. It was not a reconciliation but a convenience thing for him because of the economics. I miscarried while away, and now he wants a divorce and doesn't want me in our marital home. I am still recovering from the horrible time I have had and he is pushing divorce papers at me. We are living apart and I have not seen him in a couple of months. I don't speak to him, only through email as it is very painful and his coldness and distance hurts. He has no sympathy or understanding that I am suffering still and has never comforted me abuyt the loss. He said he just wants to get divorced and move on. What should I do? There are amany unresolved issues that I need to address with him but he will not agree to anything else but just walking away and never talking to me again. He would prefer it if I didn't exist it seems. There was OW I suspect and that is the reason for his guilt as I was so depressed and unhappy while pregnant. What are my options? Any insight into his cold, unfeeling, uncaring behaviour? Thanks all
