missherlove,
Thank you! I'm still struggling the boundries portion of it. But I'm GAL. I've started learning the loving distance part. Thanks for the advice about reading "Getting back together" I finally finished reading it. And that is one book I did show my husband last night. He is not a reader, but he has it for the weekend, so I hope he'll at least skim it.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10