missherlove, Thank you! I'm still struggling the boundries portion of it. But I'm GAL. I've started learning the loving distance part. Thanks for the advice about reading "Getting back together" I finally finished reading it. And that is one book I did show my husband last night. He is not a reader, but he has it for the weekend, so I hope he'll at least skim it.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10