Had another good week this week with what I felt like were a couple of minor victories for me. I started a diet on Sunday and really stuck to it all week. I weigh in tomorrow so hopefully lost some weight. The best part is, I realized that I am doing this for me! For the first time since the bomb, I am doing something for me without the underlying goal to try to improve my R. I also have done a good job of not being tied to her moods. I came home one night this week in a great mood but W was in a foul mood. Now normally, my mood would shift to match hers and I would work myself up worrying about what is bothering her. Not this time, I stayed in my good mood, cooked a great dinner that I had been wanting to cook, and she ended up changing to match my good mood.

Starting to rediscover my love of cooking. Going to make griilled salmon with a shallot/red wine compound butter this weekend. That should be good after shoveling all the snow that is supposed to fall tonight...


Me:41
W: 35
Married: 6
Together: 15
Bomb: 08/09
Currently: Investing in me!

"You can't do anything about anything you can't do anything about" - Larry King