Hey mb28, I just saw the post on your thread you are doing great!!!
I do want my D to have a R with my W but I want it to be with my old W and so does my D. During the R talk with my W the other night I told her that our D's kind and caring spirit comes from her mother. I told my W that the very best of our D comes from her and how she raised her. That was met silence, I know my wife is now being judged by the moral compass that she set herself in our D. Ironic isn't it.
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.