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"Don't Love You"

That is a text I received tonight from my H...There were plenty flying back and forth which I will post later on about but right now - To much emotion and didn't even DB a response to that.

All I said was "Keep telling yourself that and eventually you will believe it."

"Don't Love You""Don't Love You""Don't Love You""Don't Love You""Don't Love You""Don't Love You""Don't Love You""Don't Love You""Don't Love You""Don't Love You""Don't Love You""Don't Love You""Don't Love You""Don't Love You""Don't Love You""Don't Love You" frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown

This is something he has never said before. sick


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Serenity. Stop replying to him. And don't open anymore! Delete before you read them! I'm on my phone. Wish I could help more. Hugs!


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(((Serenity)))
Originally Posted By: Serenity13
I didn't want an all out war with my H however he has proven over and over that he can't do the right thing.
Yeah, but it's kind of like the U.S. didn't want an all-out war with Japan, either.
But what do you do after an opening salvo like that?

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Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
When is your birthday, Serenity? And where does the SPANKIN' line start?? laugh Puppy
Um...what am I missing, here?!


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(((Serenity)))
Originally Posted By: mindfull
Serenity. Stop replying to him. And don't open anymore! Delete before you read them! I'm on my phone. Wish I could help more. Hugs!
Ditto. DITTO. DITTO, Girl!
Why? Why do that to yourself?
Tell me now that your birthday present to yourself will be no more texts back OR forth from this heartless pr!cK!


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Originally Posted By: Serenity13
"Don't Love You" This is something he has never said before. sick
And he no doubt said it to upset you.
And you willingly handed that power over to him.
Agreement #1: "Don't take anything personally."
((()))s to almost-Birthday-Girl!
Who's gonna celebrate it this year! laugh laugh laugh


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you are worth something love....


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Let me offer you a translation since you probably don't speak buttwipe.

"Don't love you," in buttwipe means, "I really really hate that you've called me on my crap and now I have to give up my super selfish ways and it seems I've lost control over you so I'm going to say something ugly and stomp my feet and try to make you do what I want you to again."

Is that clear? Buttwipes are notoriously ill-spoken and long-winded.

Now, go celebrate that birthday. Not gonna let a buttwipe ruin your day, are you???

SD


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Originally Posted By: SDFoundGirl
Let me offer you a translation since you probably don't speak buttwipe.

"Don't love you," in buttwipe means, "I really really hate that you've called me on my crap and now I have to give up my super selfish ways and it seems I've lost control over you so I'm going to say something ugly and stomp my feet and try to make you do what I want you to again."

Is that clear? Buttwipes are notoriously ill-spoken and long-winded.

Now, go celebrate that birthday. Not gonna let a buttwipe ruin your day, are you???


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Originally Posted By: SDFoundGirl
Let me offer you a translation since you probably don't speak buttwipe.

"Don't love you," in buttwipe means, "I really really hate that you've called me on my crap and now I have to give up my super selfish ways and it seems I've lost control over you so I'm going to say something ugly and stomp my feet and try to make you do what I want you to again."

Is that clear? Buttwipes are notoriously ill-spoken and long-winded.



BINGO.

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