why are you talking about or bringing up or questioning her about the A? It's not an issue if she's not bringing up a reconciliation.
NO wonder she feels you won't let it go; you want her to apologize for something she won't admit...
Come on, back WAY WAY OFF...and relax. Just for this weekend, okay? THEN see what's next.
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