Well, there are various experts on infidelity online (that I have discovered) and they all agree on confronting with proof and exposure first, if WS wants to come back to the marriage than request they end contact via letter, become transparent, go to counseling.
If they don't end the affair, there are more varying opinions out there but most recommend (in MWD's language): LRT+GAL+180.
Last edited by newmama; 02/06/1001:54 AM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004