flowmom,
My problem with informing the OWH is that I don't know where they live or where he works. And they have no home phone. All my info about the OW I got when I had my H FB & email passwords. So I know her cell number and email. Other then her H's name, I know nothing else about him, they are unlisted in the phone book. I've googled him and and found nothing. I think what I'm going to start trying to do is track down his family members to see if I can get a phone number for him.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10