Hopeless feelings

[flowmom]

mb28, it sounds like you're doing really well. It sounds like your H is getting the message, even if you're not doing it "perfectly". Could you drop off a letter at the OWH's house or work? Personally I think that phoning is kind of intrusive and puts a person on the spot. If I was learning that info I would NOT want to be phoned and I would feel mistrust about the motivations of the person phoning.