When W first asnwered demand to not return if affair still going, it was easy for her to say "I THINK I can live with that." She left it open ended, no obligation. When I replied "Let me know when you are sure", she now has to give a definate answer. She didn't like that.
This is good, very good in fact. Know this, women test men, she wants to know that you're a strong man, she can commit to a strong man, she can't commit to a weak man. You can stand up to her, in fact it's a requirement at this point.
Standing up to her shows that you are strong. If you can't stand up to her, when could you ever stand up for her if this was ever required. She needs to know you're stronger than her, if you aren't, you won't be with her, I guarantee you this.
That was a very good response on your part.
Let it be now.
Don't call or text her, let her text you. Maintain the distance and your happy life, it's a requirement.
Remember she will test you, push you, see if you're faking or not, no backsliding allowed whatsoever.
You can do, I have faith in you. Now the real requirement is you believing in yourself to be able to be the strong man.
