I guess that's the problem.. I'm not sure how I feel.

On the one hand, wouldn't we all love to have our families back and intact? On the other hand, how in the world do you ever forgive the hurt and pain that someone purposely inflicted upon you??

Do I tell him yes and then see if he will agree to my demands such as NO CONTACT with OW?

I've been up and down and all around all week and still have no idea what the right thing is...


Married 12 years
2 Children
Bomb 6/2007
Divorced 8/2009