I think this issue would have been better tackled if I hadnt made the offers in the first place.
I mean...I am supposed to be not pursuing and detaching. But I felt sorry for her being in her situation and wanted to jump to her rescue like I used to...which isnt detaching or avoiding pursuit.
What I guess I still havent learned is that she doesnt care. If its coming from me, it's not even as welcome as if its coming from a stranger.
All my attempts do is make me look more pathetic...and as I said give them something to laugh about. My ex even told me I was an idiot the other night when I went over there for not seeing that she and the OM were together/dating. (She may have said that to hurt me out of being pissed...but it did its job given all the time we were spendign together and her saying she wasnt going to make promises to anyone.)
