I don't think a betrayed spouse should pay for the cellphone or the ISP that their cheating spouses uses to conduct their affair. I strongly disagree with that one, and in fact would broaden to:
- Do NOT do anything that directly enables the wayward's affair financially or logistically.
I've also seen you post above (but not here) about moving out? STRONGLY DISAGREE. In fact, it's just about the only thing around here that everyone agrees on: THE BETRAYED SPOUSE SHOULD NEVER MOVE OUT OF THEIR MARITAL BED/HOME. (unless of course there is abuse going on, or some level of relational toxicity that is SO great, that it's harming the children for you to stay, and your cheating spouse refuses to leave).
