My point exactly.. you will be free from your H's moods and all his drama and issues. If your H chooses not to change and improve there is no reason to be caught up in that web forever.
I didn't say being a single mom would be freedom. But a mom is only part of who you are. Just like being a single dad won't be freedom for your H.
And if you only know divorced mothers who are *only* happy in a romantic R maybe you need to find new mothers to hang with
