Wow, this is from blownaway65:

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The standard formula for success seems to be:

Work on yourself for yourself
Detach
WAS notices the grass is not greener and starts to regret what they have left behind
WAS starts to pursue YOU
You decide if you want or can have WAS back (this will be really hard for me if we get to that point)


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There really is no timetable though, that's the hard bit.


not sure if this fits Ghandi but sure makes sense!!!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004