All your concerns a valid ones. I don't think your stance is over the top. However, I can understand your strong negative feelings toward the OM but as other have told me you can't blame the OM for the A. Our W's are responsible for allowing the hook up to occur. It doesn't happen if the our W's had choosen to remain faithful to the M.
I will not be willing to attend any functions when he is present. This sucks for me and the kids but there is only so much crap I can put up with.
I'd be monitoring mode as well and you kids are old enough that they can communicate any issues they have with the guy.
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Regarding your list. Take 24 hours away from the situation and re-write it.
I agree with CBart about taking 24 hours to let the jets cool a bit before you submit your stated ground rules.
I'll be watching how this progresses with great interest. Keep you cool and stay firm with your stance on insuring the kids are as safe as possible.
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)
