I thought about telling her that she had to figure it out but she was taking our S-9 to weigh-in's at a huge wrestling tournament (and I wanted to be the Knight in shining armor). .... She said: "thank you, you are my savior" ....She responds with: "Now we are legal :-D"
Awesome. Just awesome.
When kids are small or big, it is much easier to force the S to do it themselves. I find that with kids in the middle, there are too many things to cut all ties without hurting the kids. As long as it feels right, reasonable, and isn't "cake eating" on her part.
