Oh, my sister came over with a nice card for me...sort of a pick me up. Anyway she was here when exh textd yesterday morning so we started talking about my new boundaries with him and how he doeesnt like it...she made me laugh. She said of course he doesn't like it. You are trying to be a normal divorced woman that only talks to her exh about the child. He on the other hand lives in a strange world where you are divorced from your first wife, still work for her dad and he takes care of him like a son, hangs out all the time with exw's brother and now exw's sister (that he hated for so long) is now his new best friend. Even exw1 still coddles him and holds his hand behind her new husbands back. Exh expects it should be this way for you too!
After thinking about it...shes right!
that makes a lot of sense.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
