Yes you should be able to say whatever you want (as long as it's without demands, disrespect and anger) without having to walk on eggshells, terrified of her temper and how she might react.
Nope, no demands, disrespect or anger. We talked a few times this week and every time it's pressure about what my decision is. If I bring up counseling, she hangs up the phone. Then she'll call back and say she's ready to move on. I got home today and the house was a mess again. I asked my daughter how it was going on how she felt around her mom this week. She said that it was fine but that her mom had gotten angry with her a couple of times. Ok, sounds about normal. Then I got a call from the wife with the SOS about I needed to make a decision or she was going to go buy her own house cause she wasn't going to live in an apartment anymore and she wanted to come home.
I'll be honest. I want her to come home because I love her but I don't want to put up with this anger crap. She says she doesn't want to be alone anymore. I can only assume that she'll have someone else very quickly if I decide she can't come home based on this past year. It really pisses me off that I can't tell her how I feel without her getting angry.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
