yeah exposure while smiling and cooking dinner is actually a reflection of Plan A but Plan A was designed to be followed by Plan B ultimately!

For me, I exposed, kicked him out and ignored him 99% until the baby was born. Then didn't do any kind of method...just survived until he brought up D in October. The next day I started Plan A and GAL and 180 but am having great difficulty moving to an NC approach.

Have been gradually "avoiding" WH more each week over the last month.

Last edited by newmama; 02/05/10 07:46 PM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004