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Trusting, You got some sense of your X not being happy and I would think that would help somewhat.

I have seldom gotten that sort of information from X. Only accidently, when I overheard him ordering her around.

I have been doing another 180 (not that I am really at that stage any more)--asking for him to reciprocate favors. This is a real dynamic to undo because I always put him first. Ultimately, that just meant a whole boat of disrespect.