Well when I started posting to this board more than 18 months ago - good God has it really been that long!, the Searching4Help seemed appropriate. In the past few months I feel like I am beginning my life over again (yes evidently you can do that even at my ripe old age :-) ). So I decided with a new focus comes a new name - hence BeginningAgain.
BBJ - I think you were very smart to dodge the self-inflicted bullet. That, in my mind would just have caused you more weeks/months/years of frustration and running around in circles while living in limboland. Good call to continue the path you have recently chosen.
Remember a divorce is just a piece of paper - if (and this is a big IF) Dan does choose at some point to really get his act together and make the kind of lasting changes you need him to make to be the husband you deserve - the divorce will not stop you from rekindling the relationship.
Kerry - to change your name go to your profile and type in what you want your screen name to be. When you hit "submit" it goes to the moderator of the board for approval. My was changed the same day (within about an hour) that I submitted it.
