The other night, I was picking up kids and there was a pile of stuff in the garage, my stuff, from under our bed.
In that stuff was a legal pad i used to keep that i had written my goals on 3 yrs ago.
Everything from Disney to paying off wife's student loan,cc's,getting her a car,stuff around the house.
Guys I accomplished everything, everything on that list before she filed divorce.
I guess I missed on that list, the non-material things you wanted to accomplish.
The things that made YOU the best person you could be.
You put all of your eggs in one freakin basket man......and never saw any reason to change.
You never saw any reason to look into the mirror and say that you could do better.
Not for her, or the children, but for you....
And I am still not convinced that you see that.....
because, even now, you are STILL portraying the victim throughout this.
Sometimes, there are things that happen to us that we will never fully understand, and mostly because we wouldn't take the time to do ANY work to find out what that might be.
IF...there were a quick fix for this, and it was as simple as knowing what the answer was to the outcome WE wanted.....
What would we actually learn from that ?
Tell me what YOU would have learned if you DBed for a week, and then your wife came running back to you crying that she missed you and she was wrong?
Who would you be today because of that ?
Anyone different ?
Do the work A.......You will not regret it.....
And I would seriously like for you to answer my questions, and NOT skirt around them this time please......
