Yes pup, that was my intention in writing it... also hopefully to awaken his instincts to protect his home from danger.. most men do feel that quite powerfully.
mb28, I find it easier to handle threads with only one household in them each.. if we have two households in the same thread I will get confused lol
I think what I am suggesting with Ghandi is in part "the silent treatment" as it is conventioally called. And MOVE OUT OF THE BEDROOM.. do NOT share a bed... DISTANCE DISTANCE DISTANCE.
Once you get those "truth darts" in the H's brain you let them fester for a while... show pain, show hurt, show panick and fear... but do NOT argue, name call, or criticize your H at all. No attacking him.... state your case and then offer silence.