I just re-read through everything. Gosh, there is a lot of cheating here. It started w/you ten years ago, then her a few years back, and now this?
I would agree, that if you're going to MC, get it out there! If she will stay put, the counselor may be able to steer a productive conversation, but it sounds like she may bolt. If she does, you have a documented professional witness of her chaos.
HUGS
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
