Doing hard time on the MLC chain gang.

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OP,
I was in on the first part of the session b/c I needed to make sure the therapist knew of how serious the situation was the night before with D13. Without getting into specifics it was very serious. Then I excused myself so the session could continue with just the 2 of them, I actually don't see myself involved in any more sessions unless my D13 feels she needs to say something to me in front of C that she doesn't feel comfortable telling me by herself.

I am gathering that D13 IC session didn't go entirely as planned.

Her counselor obviously did not understand that someone may say something and not mean it, in otherwords LIE!!! Meaning that my W may have said something to my D13 and it was a lie. My D13 wants to indict my W on some lies yet wants to believe her when she says things like "I'm never coming back." or "your father disgusts me". Still it was very good for my D13 and she likes the C as do I.

I think that therapists, Counselors, Pyscologist, etc. somehow think that their "couches" somehow have the power to make people tell the truth. My W lied her way through countless sessions and I bet she is still lying to her C today. I'll never forget the look on my IC's face after I told him that my W lied through her teeth during the last Joint MC with me, W , W's IC, my IC. It was pure astonishment on his part.

This whole thing would be easier if there was not this rift between my D13 and my W.

Maybe "easier" is a bad choice of words.