Just as a casual observer (I do not have a spouse that is cheating) but I find this all pretty interesting and I agree with your approach. My question, what happens after most of these affairs are terminated this way. Does the cheating spouse just go off and find someone else? Or does this have a long term effect?
If you mean what happens to the wayward spouse if they run off with their partner?
Apparently infidelty follows the two... and its very often the case that one of them cheats on the other or they break up when they move in and they can't negotiate finances or vacations like adults.
They just move from partner to partner, one rel failing after the other... in both cases... the WS and the OP both never learn to grow up and act like adults ...
It makes alot of sense really... you can see a sample of this on Two and a Half Men with Charlie Sheens character.. he's a good example of the run away and start fresh philosophy... and he's often alone and miserable.
