That's exactly what I needed. Last night I cleaned the house, bought drinks for her and the kids and left them in the fridge for her. She surprised me by coming over in the morning. I thought she'd come when I was already out of the house.
We were planning to go to a Carnival today (Friday), but my cousin had called late last night and mentioned she wanted to join us but on Saturday. I mentioned it to my W this morning and she said okay.
I told her I was going to be back after I drop (my friend) off at home, again she said okay. Didn't mention who my friend was.
Once I got into work though, I thought about things and I realized I should have asked her about changing the days of the Carnival. I think that was one of my flaws was just making plans without checking with her first. So I called her at home and apologized for not doing so. She said it was okay and that was that.
I think living independently might have made me a little more selfish when I make plans and I don't check with the other parties involved. That's one thing that came up when I was in the relationship with my special friend. For that I'm glad for the experience because without it I wouldn't have known.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
