I meant by that sentence, I am not sure if your H even knows at the moment if he wants to be with you because he is confused and scared and you make him feel safe, or because he wants the whole thing that M involves......which yes is about loving you, being committed, pulling his share of the weight AND feeling safe.
I don't think you should stay and settle for anything less than him putting in that effort to show you he is really committed to meeting you half way and making your future M a partnership. Anything less would be doing yourself an injustice. Anything less and it just will not work long term.
Hope you are out making some good new memories tonight.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
