Thanks Wholeagain,

As I was writing those last posts I was thinking to myself "Why am I being so unreasonable about this ?".

W is the kids mother after all, the fact that she chose to break up our family won't change that.

Maybe I'm thinking W doesn't deserve to see the kids because of what she has done.

That's certainly not going to be attractive to her, and now that I see that in writing it does sound almost nasty on my part.

I think a 180 might be in order and I'll try to just sweat the big stuff.


H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010