Regarding your list. Take 24 hours away from the situation and re-write it. The way it is currently worded will not be received well IMHO.
You have an Attorney correct? Have you put together a parenting plan yet? You can put the terms of interaction of third parties in the parenting plan. They don't really have teeth but most responsible people respect legal documents. Additional you can have motion the court to make the terms of the parenting agreement effective immediately.
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