I have been following the advice that you and puppy have been giving mb28 and just last night i told husband I will not interact with you while you are having a talking to OW.
H responds: What are you talking about. I am not talking to her about anything other than our son.
Me: It is not up for debate. As long as you are in an relationship with her, I am not in one with you. This is not a three person relationship.
I leave with son to go out to dinner.
When I return Husband engages in conversation asking me what I was saying earlier before I left. I told him that I made myself clear, we have nothing to discuss other than our son and household business as long as he is interacting with OW. He tried to make a joke, i replied,"I would love to one day be able to laugh and joke with you but I find nothing you say funny and we no longer have that type of relationship while you are involved with her." More denial on his part and then he kept trying to ask where is all this coming from, what proof do I have, why do i think he is involved with her, etc. I told him none of it is up for debate and that was all.
My question for you Allen is "What do I do now?" We are in the same house together so of course there will be some talk, but I do not want to go back to the same pattern. I really meant what I said but I also do not want to be childish or walk around my house with an attitude. he has talked to me some today and I have responded but haven't been chatty..just simply answer him if he asks me a question. Is this correct?
Sorry Mb28 to highjack your thread. I have really been following along and think that you are doing a great job and have seen alot of progress with your husband.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
