Unbelievable

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Nikbondiew
Thank you so much for following my thread.

My first H did the same thing to me that your H is doing to you. The woman he ended up married too (and still is, 15+ years) is a crack head, in and out of jail and in and out of rehab. They have 2 kids together, and she even lost the chance to be around them for a while. However, my XH keeps taking her back. I used to be happy that he was suffering and that his life turned out so bad for what he did to me (I caught him in our bed with 2 women at the same time). Now I feel very sad for him, and wish his life would turn around. We share a son together, who is now 21, and I had custody because of this women he was with. If you can believe it, we talk sometimes about his problems and I tell him how sorry I am for him. I am still very close to his family and have been since we divorced, and that had helped me tons to have their support. Are you close to his family at all?

Up until my recent problems with my current H, I was able to look back and say that what happened to me in my first M was the best thing ever because I found this wonderful new man. And I still believe that he is a wonderful man, that is why I’m fighting to save my M. I just want you to know that I too had never dated anyone else before my first H, and I was so scared. You will love again and be loved again, even better than ever. Hang in there, and I’m so sorry for your pain.