Doc,
It sounds like I've had an impact on things, and have stopped his disrespect in my household. It will be interesting to see if he returns. We'll see if he's willing to accept the guidelines I've requested. My W says that I've chased him away, giving me no validation for my concerns. I find it interesting that she shared my concerns with him.

My plan is to maintain connection with my W. There are enough positive signs for me to be more proactive at influencing connection.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching