LolaL, I see you have been here for quite some time.I feel that I have been patience thus far and maybe my patience is wearing thin. I am here fo alot of the same reasons others are here. Although my wife left, she didn't leave for another man. She felt as if I weren't attracted to her.
There may been some truth behind this b/c it's hard to be attracted to someone who isn't treating you right. Again this leads back to communication and the reason why I am here.
I almost feel like telling her exactly what I want in the relationship and if she wants it too then we shold start working on it. However I don't want to put pressure on her to decide on the spot. Five months into it may be too soon, but maybe later this year if things aren't moving forward, I will put her on the spot.
I have offer to goto MC, she went twice and then stopped. I think her head was on straight at that time. \
Do you think I should suggest MC now that we have had time to let the dust settle?
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