I've hit a wall.. Now what?

[talia]

Hi Pearl,
Thanks!!! I'm not getting off yet, but I reserve the right to whine a little bit about the motion sickness.

I'm journaling as I read on other peoples threads... not on here because its totally random, But I'm pulling quotes and recording my thoughts. My concern is no longer if H comes home or if there is anything I can do to make him come home. I've let go of that. Now its about setting my boundaries for the D process so He deals with me in a way that I find acceptable. Before I meet with him I need to decide what THOSE boundaries are and communicate them. That's the struggle today. I'll have thoughts to post here for feedback when I get them in some kind of coherent order.

No MORE FB - I haven't looked at his page in MONTHS. I see it as none of my business. I knew better - my own fault. I'm over it now.... just a brief lapse. My own damn fault and I need to stop feeling sorry for myself... big girl panties....

Thanks for the ROB quote, love his stuff. I am at the point where if I can have it - maybe great (not sure if I want it) but I don't need it. I'm not going to fall on my financial sword or wait for him to pull is head out of his a$$. I will protect myself financially and emotionally. This is his deal.

Time to give him his choices, he's given me mine.

Feeling stronger.... thanks to all of you and the boundaries thread....

I WILL handle this, my way... onward to a self inflicted Gucci beating... I think I need it...

T