Dbd, it's good news that things are getting under control as you put it--yeah, he will need to follow the rules finally!
As for packing the stuff, it is another huge step in the detaching/healing process!
But the best news is that you are finding you are happy without him and reconnecting with the old you! Even though I have not detached, GALing has truly helped me transition to the possibility of not being with WH and "seeing" that a life without him can be positive. Of course I haven't been with WH for 20 years!! So it is truly remarkable that you have been able to reach this point after 9 months!!! You are strong!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
